Questions From A Troubled Soul: What can you do when your visions show that you are being spiritual, but someone deliberately places themselves in front of you to block you and you know that they are from the left side or money making side and you are trying hard to be spiritual which is on the right side? And Why do they do this, and place themselves in your path?

   This is really hard to explain to individuals who are going through this, that no matter how spiritual you are, or how you try to not allow others to manipulate or control you or even block you, it is very hard. It is hard because these individuals including women who claim to be spiritual or Christian deliberately plant themselves in your way so you can not be spiritual or raise yourself up from petty and stupid situations.

   Why do they do this? The answer is because they are jealous of the spirituality and goodness you live by. They do not have it, so they block others, step in their way or try to destroy them all in the name of being holier than thou.

   In actual reality they are very sick and jealous individuals who can't make it unless they manipulate, hurt others, oppress them, tell lies, block, and so on. Visions show these individuals are afraid and jealous that you are better then them or are truly spiritual given by God.

   Psychology basis shows these individuals are insecure in who they are, and what they do in life, as well as the way their approach life. In psychology as my major you learn that these individuals puff themselves up to be more important then they are and use every device possible to hurt others, because they themselves need help and need to learn about spirituality and the respect that is shown to others regardless of any differences, gifts/abilities, color, race, religion and beliefs, but they can't. It is like Floyd, Erickson and other well known psychologist and psychiatrists say, that individuals like this have a deep seeded and rooted problem not only in insecurity but in jealous of the fact that you have something that they don't and they want it, if they can't have it then they will try to take it or destroy you.

   It is unfortunate that our world is laced with insecure and jealous individuals who will stop at nothing to hurt, oppress, discriminate and block others of whom they are jealous of, and want what they have. I myself have even had visions of individuals who deliberately block me, and turn their back on me, but stay in my path in order to try to keep me from being spiritual even when running a business. These individuals are truly sick individuals and their time will come, with people seeing them for what they are.

   Turn to God, and the Universe, pray and meditate asking for the assistance and to help lift you up above these scum suckers who feed on others in any way they can. Your prayers will be answered. Remember these individuals are very jealous, insecure, afraid and very sick individuals, you must rise above them with God/Universal help and you will succeed in over coming them and their vices. 

" You have stated that you are a Spiritual Advisor and you use both your Clairvoyant/Psychic Gifts as well as your Educational Backgrounds/Expertise, but in this particular area We are interested in of Psychology and your helping married couples. How do you do this? What is Spirituality?"
When I am in contact with an individual in some manner man or women, I try to use my gifts to assist them if I see their are problems in the marriage or relationship. As in the past I would write as a friend to help when I saw disturbing visions or ones that would be harmful and try to help. I would use the gifts I have to also transmit as well as write in the letter I love you unconditionally. This is what God tells us regarding His relationship with us, that regardless of what we do God loves us unconditionally. This is the message that each light soul must give to another light soul to assist them. In this context and meaning which I explain is to show respect for their soul, that he can overcome these problems, if another light soul openly shows unconditional love of another light soul. This does not mean the physical love of a man and a woman, but a spiritual love between souls who recognize another soul is in trouble and needs help.

 By suggesting unconditional love, you also work with them to love themselves unconditionally and accept that they are a very special soul, regardless of their past mistakes, but to love themselves enough to change the physical problem or if it is just a past souls problem, the spirituality that is causing this blockage and destruction of their soul. They may or may not care what others think, but deep down inside they care what their inner soul is telling them. When I do the spiritual counseling and advisory, I write letters and send flowers. In this way the letters help to give guidance and direction while the flowers bring positive energy flow and light into the person's life. This also is a signal for them to pay more attention to their needs, and focus on the inner child that is in deep trouble.

When you give unconditional love both written and deeply through the soul into the telepathic and open world, you are assisting them in making the needed changes, giving them positive encouragement, love and feed back. It doesn't mean you love them physically, but spiritually and recognize their soul as a special light soul. In this way you are showing them it is all right to love themselves, and love the inner child, accepting this child in every way.

When couples have trouble they forget to love themselves and each other. Then they become bored and start looking around for something to break the boredom. Even then they may have some sort of love still for their past partner.

In many instances both partners have fallen out of love with each other, are stuck financially and are either staying together for the sake of the kids, playing around on each other, fighting or not showing the deep love that two endeared souls will share when they are deeply in love. This causes many problems psychologically for the children, because they are shown the negative and given negative messages about love and marriage, such as it is O.K. to be married and play around instead of being committed to just one partner in every way with deep love, spirituality, unconditional love and oneness with the Universe. When they stay together and are a complete soul themselves that have found the spiritual light, and have become one with the Universal Consciousness, then their marriage works. The share much, have much in common, and the spiritual ones makes it complete.
It is important for all parties to be tapped into their spirituality. As the spirituality deepens the clairvoyant and psychic abilities develop. It is also important to learn, understand and use all these with wisdom. Spirituality does not involve using people, walking on them, manipulation and so on. The gifts and abilities are bestowed upon you for walking the path of spirituality and are reward for your development. When couples and individuals develop these abilities with spirituality in a relationship or marriage, they become a strong force of the light and beacon to many others.

When women and men settle in life for less and accept a partner who is not equal to their soul they find themselves becoming bored, not willing to make necessary changes in themselves to reach the other soul's level of spiritual advancement and that is when they become abusive, adulterous, unloving, and negative. They have not loved themselves unconditionally to advance, and expect the other partner not to or try to advance the other partners advancement by sabotaging everything they do. When two people do not advance spiritually together they can grow apart. They find less and less things in common, and don't want to do anything with the other partner, being bored and tired with them, but using the marriage vows as an out so that if they play around, get bored with this person, then run back to the married partner. DO watch out for those partners or individuals who Play a role or Play being Spiritual. They are not. They will tire of the role of being spiritual or pleasing, by making you think they are trying to be spiritual and they will make many slip ups back into the old habits. WATCH for this, for a TRUE Spiritual person, partner or individual does not play or act a role, it becomes a Part of them making them whole spiritually. They will Radiate this from their whole being. There whole being will willingly make these changes on their own because they have understood, learned and accepted the Role of Spirituality in their lives.

When an individual is not playing a role or trying to be pleasing regarding Spirituality, they don't need to make any effort because when Spirituality is accepted, you accept the understanding, and wisdom that comes with this for full Spiritual Development and Advancement. When you divorce, you both work together to further your spiritual development by accepting the divorce with the responsibilities on both parts. Those who divorce and accept the divorce, working together, with respect to keep a friendship regardless of children or not, are the ones who recognize that this friendship is the beginning of their spiritual journey. How they react and treat one another during and after the divorce is a key.

 If someone is spiritual and the other partner is not, you will find the other partner causing problems, justifying their actions of continued hurting of that individual with lies, action, or destroying someone's reputation to make them look better and this action is done when ever they can to the spiritual partner at every chance because the spiritual partner or individual has rejected their way of life or values, ethics and morals.

This can be individuals who are jealous of another's gifts and talents, position, personality, easy going manor, out going manner, close family/brother/sister ties and so on. If a married partner can not commit to you on all levels, it becomes a roller coaster ride and the severe pain, time and time again. Each soul in a marriage must know when it is time to end it if it is not working spiritually or for any other reason so that both individuals and all involved can advance.

 This is when it takes strength not to try to change the other party, but to accept that they do not want to change or live their life as a spiritual soul and bring it to an end. I would like to say that I wish all men and women who marry or marry having kids, can separate spiritually and as adults, but we can not or seem to forget that we are spiritual beings of the light and act out negativity, anger, bitterness, revenge, lack of responsibility, and lack of equal division if acquired during marriage through work, support, and so on or even responsibility of the children. It is all me.

.It is like a war, winner take all, but even in wars, there are no winners, all sides suffer in some way, such as loss of life, destruction, financially and so on. To be winners all sides must compromise and accept shared responsibilities in all matters.

 Life is give and take, Spirituality gives it a true meaning behind accepting of responsibilities, actions and such. Many don't stay with someone in a relationship that they are not compatible with, Spirituality, should be the same. Spirituality is the key to each light soul's deep being and without it you lose the warmth of the light. I have had visions, that people after directing/spiritual advising them stay in the same rut or routine because it has been a long time, or because it has become routine. If you do not want to change the rut or routine or get out of the marriage/relationship because even though it hasn't worked you've been in it for many years, you are being selfish.

You are not thinking of the role your light soul or the role the light souls you are joined with in a relationship or the product of that relationship/marriage in children and their light souls. You can be an equal partner and active role, accepting responsibility and being a role model even if you are not in the main marriage/partnership showing other souls you come in contact with that this is just as important and you are being the light soul you were created to be. In majority of cases this will work, 100%, but you will find some who's souls are so dark that they will do anything to hurt the other partner in some manner or through the children.

This is because they have never found the light or accepted Spirituality into their life. You will also run into those who will pretend or play a certain role of spirituality because they don't want to be alone, but sooner or later they will become bored with the relationship and start having sexual relations on the side in secret, then later openly to show their open disdain for the pertain role they took on, attacking others who are spiritual and justifying in their mind their actions are right in every way.

This will keep happening over and over, because they don't love themselves enough to know that this relationship is not advancing spiritually. They must connect spiritually with that partner with a deeper inner being feeling or they must divorce and connect with a light soul who is their equal spiritually and they can advance spiritually together. If after a time in a marriage or relationship if both parties who have joined together and spirituality is not found and developed then blockage and separation of the soul from the light occurs.

 Do not stay with someone where there is not deep love and respect on both sides, because spirituality will not develop unless there is. You will do both souls harm by hanging on whether for the sake of the kids or fear. You will prevent your development and theirs. Each soul must be given the chance to develop fully and spiritually.
Spirituality is not about belonging to a specific religion or faith but is a feeling, trust, belief and actual living of it in daily life. Belong to a church does not make someone spiritual it just means they are fulfilling the social obligation of religion. Spirituality is a commitment to a specific way of life and living unconditional love, sharing this love with all light souls with whom you come in contact.

When souls that are not spiritually evolved or developed will misunderstand situations like this and think of it as flattery, sex, infatuation, obsession, or a coming on to them or even womanizing, or for women what I call manizing. You will find this quite common in both men and women who do not understand spirituality or the true meaning and commitment of spirituality and the help each light soul is responsible in sharing this information or in helping.

This is very important, to assist these people because each soul has a mission and purpose on earth spiritually that is important and must be achieved. If they are blocked, stuck in a rut or unable to advance it hurts all spirituality. In the many faith including Catholics, the belief is that God forgives us for our sins and that our penance is completed. This is not so. God does forgive us for our sins because He loves us unconditionally, but we must also carry it even further. We must take responsibility for these actions, thoughts, words and deeds by rectifying them, and making amends. When we take responsibility we accept our part or action we did and we corrected it with making amends to the person, then we are erasing the sins of Karma we have committed against another light soul who has a mission. We are erasing our debt to this other soul and accepting our lesson, learning from it and going on to the next.

When we do not accept the responsibility for our actions, words, thoughts and deeds, to another soul but only to God, God can forgive us and love us unconditionally, removing the sin against God and His Laws, but that does not remove the Sin committed against another light soul or being.

Whether you believe in Reincarnation or not does not mean that your soul will not go through these events to make it learn. At times our souls will be drawn in unwillingly while we are trying to walk our path and do our lessons, into others who are stuck and are repeating the same lesson over and over. A good example of this is my past employer of a law firm. They harassed others in their jobs there and other places and all through the person's life. They were sued but didn't learn their lesson and continue on today in this manner. They have been forgiven by God, but they have not cleaned up the damage they have caused in this world which will keep coming back to them over and over each time worse.

This can happen in marriages, in business, and in life in general. God can forgive us for our sins against Him, but HE can not forgive our Sins against another light soul or being, ONLY the other light soul or being can, because we have sinned against them and are willing to make amends or rectify the situation which PREVENTS this learning lesson from being repeated over and over. When the church and religions began people misunderstood these things and justified in their minds that when we sin we are completely forgiven by God and He will undue the Sins we did to another and make them forgive us or not have bad feelings or anger held against us. God can not do this. It is time that we Understand the full meaning of Spirituality.

 It is a commitment, feeling and actions in life lived, such as values, morals, ethics, that we follow with Deep recognition that we Sin against God and we Sin Against Man, Another Light Soul or light being. When we make amends, retribution etc. we seek forgiveness from all parties involved. In this way we ACCEPT responsibility for OUR SOUL and ADVANCE SPIRITUALLY to the Oneness of the Universe and Divine Essence. IF you do one and not the other you have not cleaned up your sin or learning situation and it will continue. They both go hand and hand. It is the way of the Universal Law. We have gotten so far away from this over the years of making amends to both. It was done throughout the centuries, but man being full of sinful pride, felt they didn't have to do these steps, or it was no big deal. It is very much a Big Deal until we are willing to accept it all, not just a part.

This is just a few example of how I use my gifts/abilities with my education and experiences to assist and advise people spiritually. I can only advice and direct them, it is up to them to follow through for the good and spiritual advancement of their own soul and prevention of repeated lessons, karma and forcibly drawing others into their learning lessons unwillingly. If they do not listen, which is their free will and choice, and continue on the path they are walking, they must accept these consequences for the responsibility they did not accept now and making amends/retribution. It always comes back 10 X whether unconditional love, unselfishness, positively, light and service to others or abuse, oppression, selfishness, negativity and darkness. We can be leaders of the light or crawl in darkness. The choice is up to each individual soul.

Here are two example I will use to show spirituality in relationships
1st. I was deeply in love with this man, we shared a tremendous spiritual, platonic and psychic relationship. I was an out going person and enjoyed people. This one woman and I were in competition for the same man. I let my spirituality show through, she used manipulation, and in the vision lies to win and hold him. In the process and in the vision, she killed him. This means she killed his very spiritual soul that was searching for his soul mate.

Another section of this dream showed her having another man in her life, having sex and misleading the first man. She then marries the first man claiming its his baby, but over the years continues to have sexual relations with other men when she id bored, and deliberately gets pregnant by another man when the first man who sees her as she is wants a divorce. She then claims its his baby, claiming that he can't leave her now. Again he is obligated and trapped not knowing the truth. Stays in the marriage for the sake of the kids. She is not the type of person that openly runs around and does in behind his back and for years she has kept it a secret from him.

He wanting to believe that she is good, does not hear the words and signs from his other friends. He doesn't even know she was the one that set him up and destroyed his career. ( This man was on the right path, trying to accept responsibility for his actions. His big mistake was to continue to stay married to her. To accept his responsibility for caring for his kids is grand, but to stay married to someone who uses babies and sex to keep the marriage together is a mistake. For him to stick with it because he is concerned about paying child support is an even worse mistake. This situation has destroyed not only the two adults, but any children that are a product of this marriage. There is no unconditional love, touching, hugging and deep spirituality to show as a role model to these children, so that they may make their own spiritual lives with someone special.

2nd vision example. I was cleaning my closets, and cleaning the whole house little by little. This man I had a strong relationship with didn't think I was cleaning the house fast enough. The house represents situations in my life that are open to the public, the closet is situations that are not in view of the public. This other woman comes along and her house is clean top to bottom. Pleasant all around and was quickly done is a split second when she thought she was in competition with me for the same man. The situation problem arises when someone is quickly cleaning up house or issues. Suddenly not having to clean or not having issues in ones life is not normal. All "light souls" have issues, cleaning and situations in this life and other life times. By doing this quick cleaning the man will never know it is just an illusion until it is too late.

Each person, individual and partners must look closely at any relationship they develop whether it is friendship or deeper intimate relationship with just one person. If someone is putting on airs that they have no issues, situations or have a total clean house or life, I would be very cautious in developing any relationship with them for this person is hiding something or things and pretending they do not exists. This type of relationship will only develop into further and future problems. All souls have issues, learning lessons to develop to their furthest potential. That is the way life is. Remember appearances are deceiving dig down deep into the inner soul and you will see either a soul filled with light or one filed with darkness.